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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Gena Hutchings who was born in Tennesee on September 15, 1958 and passed away on July 21, 2005 at the age of 46. We will hold all that was her in our hearts forever.

She was a loving and devoted wife and mother. She enjoyed crafts, shopping, angels, cooking, riding on the motorcycle, camping and many other things. She was always trying to help someone. She loved to feed people ha ha. You couldn't say no to her feeding you!  

Although she is not "alive" on earth she is not gone. She lives on in heaven and here on earth through her family and friends.


"If love could have saved you, you would have lived forever!"



 Mama, the one who gave me life
And to dad a devoted wife
I wish u were still here
and could stop these tears
I talk to you every night before bed
And your memories still fill my head
I just hope you knew how much i love you
Because I waited to long to tell you
Just know I'm always your lil girl
Even if were in different worlds!

By Melissa




I am not scared to cry  / Brad Hutchings (son)
I am not scared to cry
Honest to God sometimes I try
I think of you and my eyes begin to swell
the pain inside me is too deep to tell

I want the world to see me fall
So they could know once and for all
Yet the swelling will soon subside
It's as if I never tried

Memories haunt me every single day
I try and try to push them away
If only the faucets would open and flow
then and only then all would know

No one will ever love me like you did
when exactly did I stop being a kid
In your eyes maybe never
A love like yours will last forever

I am not scared to cry
every single day I swear I try
My heart breaks, yet I can not weep
Trying to deal with the peace of sleep

The peace you must feel
I ask myself can this be real
Yes it is, nothing will ever return you to me
This is why I need to cry, can't you see

Maybe I need to accept my pain
Through sorrow maybe I will gain
Yes, Yes, I will finally let you go
Tears or no Tears at least I'll know

I am not scared to cry
Because I no longer need to try
My lips are salty from a stream of tears
I am letting go of you and all my fears

I feel hollow and may for many many years
No matter how many times I shead my tears
Just know I will love you til my last breath
My MOTHER so beautiful..... even in death










Click here to see Gena Hutchings's
Family Tree
Tributes and Condolences
i am almost happy   / Melissa Hutchings (daughter)
I wish you were here to see how good i am doing. I am working my ass off and more determined than ever. i am back in school though i am on summer vacation. i broke up with rob. brad n i have a nice place and i have a good job. I met a new guy that i ...  Continue >>
moving  / Melissa Hutchings (daughter)
I miss you sooooooooooooo much mama. I just dont understand why u had to go! it really sucks! and hurts! and i dont think the pain will ever go away. I feel like i didnt do enough to help you. I feel like there was so much left unsaid. I feel like th...  Continue >>
song for mama   / Melissa Hutchings (daughter)
As a child there were them times
I didn't get it but you kept me in line
I didn't know why you didn't show up some times
On Sunday mornings saying I miss you
But i'm glad we talked through
All them wrongful things seperation ...  Continue >>
dropping by   / Maryln Burrows (aunt)
Hi Gena-- sure hope you know that we are thinking of you. I dont write in here much as it is always so sad when I do.  Just want to say I think of you often.  Do you know Mandi and Melissa have become good friends. I like that. She sure mis...  Continue >>
almost three years   / Melissa Hutchings (daughter)
I cant believe its been almost three years! And i still cry, my heart still hurts, and i just want my mama back. I WANT MY MAMA BACK!! :(
Poem / Melissa Hutchings (daughter)    Read >>
Another xmas  / Melissa Hutchings (daughter)    Read >>
thanksgiving / Melissa Hutchings (daughter)    Read >>
Hi Mom  / Brad Hutchings (Son)    Read >>
going crazy?  / Melissa Hutchings (daughter)    Read >>
Thinking of you.......  / Cheri (Sister-in-law)    Read >>
poem for mama  / Melissa Hutchings (daughter)    Read >>
not 1 day  / Melissa Hutchings (daughter)    Read >>
thinkin of you  / Melissa Hutchings (daughter)    Read >>
WHAT A TRAGIC LOSS, OF ONE SO BEAUTIFUL!  / SHARI, ANGEL MOM TO YANNICK WHITEHEAD (VISITOR)    Read >>
More tributes and condolences...
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Gena's Photo Album
Mellissa with mom & dad on graduation day.
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